Every since I and my SO came into the picture (for lack of a better term), this guy has done nothing but bad mouth us to get. Saying shit like we don't want a friendship with her, we want her. My SO is only around to because he wants to fuck her, so do I and other bull shit things. From what she had said he did this with her best friend also.
The way she talks about him and the messages she had read of to me scream abuser. He is manipulative and mind fucks her while breaking her down emotionally. He will be a complete as hole to her and then turn it around to make it her fault. She ends up apologizing for him being an controlling ass! Others in her life have (without realizing it) told her the same thing. This guy is looking her up for abuse that will sooner or later turn physical.
She almost left him yesterday, until he came over (I so wanted to go out there and tell him off). Now she is giving him another chance and wants me to support her in doing so. I told her I could NOT support him. Part of me wants to say fuck this and just walk away. But I really want this friendship to work and I also don't want to leave her and her two children in the clutches of a guy like this.