She is divorced (no kids) after marrying a jerk who happened to be gorgeous because she thought one outweighed the other. You would think she'd have learned but no.
She has been dating this guy for 3 months. He is the opposite of her ex in that he is very awkward looking and most would call ugly but I don't judge that way, but he does have some unusual characteristics. He also has zero personality. They have nothing in common, so not talk to each other or have a real physical attraction.
She stayed she slept with him once because she felt bad. Oh! She calls him ugly! Today she invites us for lunch with herself and her "boyfriend" because she had some news.
They are getting married! We were floored!! I took her to the bathroom later on in the meal and questioned her as to why after all she has said about him.. Her answer? He is wealthy and she would never want for anything again. She said she could deal with having sex once month to have the lifestyle she wanted.
I'm beside myself. I've known her for 31 years and not sure how to look at her seriously. I know it's a mental health/emotional issue but does that excuse it? Does this guy deserve this? He seems over the moon with excitement and my husband said maybe he is using her back for a trophy wife, but we do not think so at all!
Please lend some suggestions as to where to go from here. I know it's my decision alone but just wonder what others think.
Edit: I guess my real question is : Would you marry for money only?