My exh started dating this girl a month after I filed for divorce. All throughout the divorce he kept claiming he loved me and to stop in while he was sleeping with her. She sent me this message the other day and I had to laugh.
"I love all kids been around them all my life I can see where the concern factor for them comes Into play in this situation.. I would never do anything to harm them or my family for that matter.,however one thing for sure I'm not trashy and I have never dated someone married before or anything close.,I don't like cheaters and I don't know what all this is"
My response was
"Exh was married when you started dating him. That makes you a cheater.Also, exh choosing to spend nye with you having sex when he just met you over being with his kids for the holiday shows a lot about both of you."