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My daughter choosing not to live with me because I spank :(

Anonymous
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My daughter is 16. My husband and I believe in spanking and its effectiveness with her and her younger siblings, my ex doesn't.

Recently, she started staying over there more often, coming up with excuses. I found out that they've been going behind my back, her planning to tell a judge she wants her father to have full custody of her. She was spanked two months ago for being half an hour late for curfew, no phone call, but not before that for a few months. She's legally documented that she's "afraid of me" and that I shouldn't have custody of any of my kids because of my "hitting".

I'm at a complete loss. I know my ex is probably feeding this all to her, but it truly seems like I've lost her and she wants nothing to do with me. Help, please, mamas!
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:39 AM
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kim15690
by Bronze Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:40 AM
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Call a lawyer, find another punishment.
Bibliomaniac
by on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:41 AM
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16 is kinda old for spankings.
renijazzysmom
by Silver Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:42 AM
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Spanking a child at 16 is ridiculous. I wouldn't want to live with you either.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:42 AM
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Why is a 16year old being spanked? Seems weird to me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
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Got my ass whipped at 16.. Lol "spankings" stopped long before that. Your daughter is being a snowflake.
thenameshailie
by Emerald Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
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Lol you spank your 16 year old?!

gregheather
by Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
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Your daughter is right - you should not be spanking a 16 year old. There are better punishments for that age that are not considered assault and legally punishable in some states.

lovemyhoney19
by Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
You spanked a 16 year old?
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blue-heart
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
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Get a lawyer.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 5, 2014 at 10:43 AM
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I am pro spanking but I would not want to live with you either. That's just weird. Say goodbye now.
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