My daughter choosing not to live with me because I spank :(
Recently, she started staying over there more often, coming up with excuses. I found out that they've been going behind my back, her planning to tell a judge she wants her father to have full custody of her. She was spanked two months ago for being half an hour late for curfew, no phone call, but not before that for a few months. She's legally documented that she's "afraid of me" and that I shouldn't have custody of any of my kids because of my "hitting".
I'm at a complete loss. I know my ex is probably feeding this all to her, but it truly seems like I've lost her and she wants nothing to do with me. Help, please, mamas!