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You will NOT be in the delivery room even though you are the father...and you won't be a part of her life!

Anonymous
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I am 41 weeks pregnant now and hopefully will have my baby soon. My stbexh and I tried for about 5 years to get pregnant. We were happily married (or so i thought) for 10 total until the day I found out I was pregnant

It turns out he never actually wanted kids and has a vasectomy done before we were even married. The whole thing was a lie

Well when it turned out I was pregnant he freaked. He aid I must be cheating and that I was a whore and he tried to slap me as I run out of the house. He then called me several times sayinpg he would kill me and the baby if he ever saw me again and many other things

He hasn't wanted to have anything to do with me up until 4 weeks ago when he called me from his new number to let me know how I can contact him when I go into labor. I told him there was no way he was going to be there.

He has no clue that I have already moved and he has no clue where I and it will stay that way

Eta the baby is his. I have never been with anyone else

Eta 2 he didnt just say he wanted to kill us once...it was many many times over the course of 2-3 months before the no contact order was put in place
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2014 at 5:56 PM
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oryxx31
by Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:00 PM
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So, did you cheat or did his vasectomy reverse?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:01 PM
I wouldn't want him in the delivery room. But I wouldn't keep him out of the childs life.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:01 PM
I am 100% sure it is his child.

Quoting oryxx31: So, did you cheat or did his vasectomy reverse?
alexsmomaubrys2
by Emerald Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:01 PM

So...is it his or not?

The chances of a vasectomy reversing are extremely slim.

incogNinja
by Whofflé on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:02 PM
Wow
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:02 PM
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He will never be around her

He made death threats to her more than once no way will he be around

Quoting Anonymous: I wouldn't want him in the delivery room. But I wouldn't keep him out of the childs life.
New.OrleansLady
by on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:02 PM

Yea, I wouldn't want him in the room but keeping him from the child is wrong IMO. 

Mommynwife26
by Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:03 PM
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Yup after the threat I wouldn't allow him near my child ever. Who knows what he would do
incogNinja
by Whofflé on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:03 PM
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So are the people on maury lol

Quoting Anonymous: I am 100% sure it is his child.

Quoting oryxx31: So, did you cheat or did his vasectomy reverse?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 5, 2014 at 6:03 PM
I don't blame you at all.
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