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My mil has no freaking filter

Anonymous
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So July 4th, my dh and I took our son to the base for the freedom fest. I posted tons of pictures on fb one that included a pic of my 4yo and the caption, "His very first cheeseburger." Lots of "likes" and cute comments. Mil writes only on that pic and says, "remember bad habits are hard to break." So embarrassing! A friend that I barely talk to, defended me saying, "your kid is so cute. Cheeseburgers are ok in moderation. I love seeing your cute kiddo. You're such a good mama."

My mil is always saying stupid shit for example two weeks after ds was born she says, "oh look, you can prop John on your big belly." When we visited them on vacation she said, "how about you go run and I'll ride my bike next to you." "Do you always have to cook full meals every night?"

My dh basically said mil can do whatever she wants bc that's his mom. Which really pissed me off.

I'm going to say something to her but I need some advice on how to approach this. Sorry it's so long.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:27 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:28 AM
Oh and I'm not even fat, never have been.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Police on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:29 AM
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Considering I have no filter, I'd ask her to keep her cakehole shut.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:30 AM
Just tell her to fuck off.
thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:31 AM

I dont see the big deal, but if she bothers you, delete her.

OxbAbIebxO
by Silver Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:31 AM
This.

And luckily my mother in law isn't a douche bag.

Quoting Danesmommy1: Considering I have no filter, I'd ask her to keep her cakehole shut.
sugareemommee
by Platinum Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:31 AM
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Just grin and bear it, be the bigger person and ignore her snarky comments. She won't change, my mil is the same way.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:32 AM
She means no harm I am sure. Don't know why DIL's feel so annoyed or threatened at everything we say.. It's such a touchy relationship. Would you want dh bitching about your Mom that way??
SamiJ18
by Platinum Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:32 AM
She must have a CM account...
bluebunnybabe
by Ruby Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:32 AM
Lol

Quoting Danesmommy1: Considering I have no filter, I'd ask her to keep her cakehole shut.
SweetMama823
by Platinum Member on Jul. 6, 2014 at 10:33 AM
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That's why you never add your mil on your FB...ever!
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