I'm questioning his motives...? I've messaged him at every milestone, when I had the baby, when she first walked.. he either ignored or blocked me. He told me at 1m pregnant to "get rid of it" and after seeing a pic of her at 2m old he said "that thing ruined my life" and told his friends he wish "it never happened" and 'it' "would just go away." Invited him to first bday, no reply. Now she's almost 14m and I messaged his last offer to see her. Suddenly he said "Oh I was childish, we're cool now, I'm going to the Army. I'll see her." And I'm just blown away.. he's acting suspicious. Hasn't apologized for leaving me to fend for myself or for the horrible things he wished on our daughter or for missing the huge chunk of her life. Isn't making incredible effort to see her just said MAYBE if he one day gets a day off work, said he hopes I won't pursue child support. This just seems weird! For a guy who wanted us both dead so badly to just randomly talk to me like we've been friends this whole time ..what u think?
on Jul. 6, 2014 at 11:28 AM