My son burned his hand horribly on sd's curling iron, DH and I are fighting
Sd was in her room curling her hair at her desk. My DS knows he's not allowed in her room, but sometimes goes in anyway because she has an iPad and he has a few games on it. The rule in the house is no leaving dangerous stuff unattended. She had a bathroom in her room and went in to pee, and when she came out my DS had second degree burns all over his hand. He gripped her curling wand to move it and it was on.
We spent the morning at the hispital, he'll be okay. When we got home, I told hd I wanted her grounded because she's not supposed to leave anything dangerous unattended. His consequence is a burned hand, she needs one too. He didn't want to but went to talk to her and when he tried to ground her she got mad at him and said he was ridiculous, she hates visiting here she won't be back and started storming out. On her way out she called my 4 yo a brat and told him to enjoy his burned hand because he didn't listen.
DH and I are now in a fight because he said I caused a fight bw them and it was all our sons fault. He called to say sorry to her and she said fine, but she's still not coming back here and being around me and her sb. DH isn't talking to me now.
Happy f-ing holiday weekend to me.