My dd had only met her step mom once before my ex and her got married. My ex wanted nothing to do with us period, but his wife forced him to take me to court this passed december. Now dd's step mom thinks she can go all over the state and country with dd, no, just fuck no, you've only been around 9 months and before that told my ex to stay away. So no you have to get it in writing to leave the immediate city from ME, and my answer will be a fuck no every time.
Just to point out, my ex has been with her for almost 5 years, he left me when I was 5 months pregnant for her and didn't even bother to show up for dd's birth because he was out fucking her.