My friend ASKED me to throw her a bridal shower a couple of months ago. It was a disaster, I ended up spending over $300 out of my pocket due to others backing out. She was a bridezilla throughout the whole shower and never once even said thank you. We are supposed to habe a girls dinner party and diaper shower for her soon. She texted me yesterday and asked me to throw her a "real" baby shower, and I told her no. IMO, it was incredibly rude for her to ask me to throw one shower, much less two. I was always taught if someone offers to throw you a shower, great, but you NEVER ask someone to throw you one. I told her I spent a lot of money on the last one and I really don't have it to spend, especially with school coming up in 3 weeks for the kids. She got really pissed and will not talk to me, and I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in her wedding in 2 weeks. I'm about ready to take my dress to her tell her to find another bridesmaid. What would you do?