I have been in a grumpy mood today and told dh I needed a few minutes alone because I felt like crying. Mil moved in 2 months ago and has dementia and my sister who is my best friend just moved across the country for grad school. I feel I have good enough reason to be upset. Dh told me I have no reason to cry and I was being ridiculous. His father died earlier this year and now he always says shit like this because he thinks he is the only one allowed to have bad days. I really try to be supportive and I loved his dad too. Right now I just want to break his face.