Stepson is a 19 loud, disrespectful bad influence on my 8 and 12 year old sons. He's a high school drop out, has done stints in Juvie and the county jail. He refers to DH any my children as losers. Oreos, crackers, bastards and more. He swears at them, teases them and when I tell him to stop, I'm called a whore, crazy bith that sucks d**** in front of my children. He steals their possessions -- video games, wii remotes, clothing and anything he can pawn or sell on the street. I've told DH that I do not want him sleeping in our home because no one has the time to stay up all night patrolling the house. Weve been married 15 years and if he continues to shove this terrible adult son down our throats, I want to leave. My kids are nice kids and he's a influence I don't want then to be around.