I nanny for a 17 month old little boy. his mom is a pretty good friend of mine and when I started, I was helping her out cause she was tight on money. I make 20 bucks a day for 9 hrs per day. I know which isnt a lot at all! She picks up and drops off, brings all the food and everything for him everyday. For the last couple months she had been coming over with new clothes (some from victoria secret)new piercings, new tattoos, hair colored ( new). Now I know that its her right to do all those things but I just feel like she is taking advantage of me. I would like to ask for more money but not sure how to go about doing that without making it a huge thing.Also I should add that dh and I just had a baby ( 6 1/2 months old) and she Iis giving us EVERYTHING from her son that he doesnt use anymore which is huuge help. Is it wrong and selfish to ask for more money per day? I should also add I only work 4 days a week.