In all these years, they refer to him as "my mom's husband". It's always bothered me, they've just shrugged me getting upset off. Today, my husband was driving by my 16 yo and her friend walking somewhere, she's at her dad's this week. He pulled over to say hi, when the friend asked who he was she said "my moms husband". When the friend asked "oh so your stepdad?" She said "no".
My DH was really upset when he got home :( should I talk to her about this? I don't even know what to say anymore, but it hurts me that it hurts him :(