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NO! You do NOT get to tell me how to birth this baby.

Anonymous
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That decision is best left between me and my OB, and my OB thinks a csection is a bad idea unless absolutely necessary.

I'm doing a 2VBA2C, and SO is telling me I'm not allowed. WTF? Since when does he know more than an OB who's been practicing for 25 years with one of the lowest csection rates, and lowest mortality rates in the area. I trust my OB and my body. I also know that when I go into labor if at any time I feel something is wrong, he'll do a csection.

VBAC, for me, is the safer option, csection is emergency only. My heart does not handle the surgery well and it's not something my OB wants to just do. He does not feel it should be our first option.

I shouldn't have to have a csection,when the chances of a hemorrhage or my heart giving out are way higher than the chances of a rupture. He can just bite me and shut the hell up if he even wants notified of when I go into labor. If he doesn't end hos little hissy fit, he can wait until I get home to get a phone call.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 11, 2014 at 8:57 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 11, 2014 at 8:59 AM
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I stopped reading at "baby's father".
TygrrEyz
by Marie on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:00 AM
Dumb question.... What is a VBAC?
mommys2babies
by Bronze Member on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:01 AM
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Just do what you & your ob feels is safe at the time. U know your body
mommys2babies
by Bronze Member on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:01 AM
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Vaginal birth after csection

Quoting TygrrEyz: Dumb question.... What is a VBAC?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:01 AM
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Vaginal birth after csection. In my case a second vaginal birth after two csections.

Quoting TygrrEyz: Dumb question.... What is a VBAC?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:02 AM
Ok, SO. He's still pissing me off.

Quoting Anonymous: I stopped reading at "baby's father".
csxt99
by Jennifer on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:02 AM
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I agree with you. When he's on that table preparing to push a human out, then he gets to decide how he does so. Since you are pushing out the human, you get to decide how to do so.

Now, I am trying to see if I figured out your acronym. Second vaginal birth after two c-sections?

BrutalTruth
by urbullyisshowing on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:03 AM
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Lol

Quoting Anonymous: I stopped reading at "baby's father".
TygrrEyz
by Marie on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:03 AM
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Thank you. I learned something new today. :)

Quoting mommys2babies: Vaginal birth after csection

Quoting TygrrEyz: Dumb question.... What is a VBAC?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 11, 2014 at 9:03 AM
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I'm going to, but we are living separately right now, and I may not call him when I go into labor. I don't need or want that BS in the delivery room.

Quoting mommys2babies: Just do what you & your ob feels is safe at the time. U know your body
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