NO! You do NOT get to tell me how to birth this baby.
I'm doing a 2VBA2C, and SO is telling me I'm not allowed. WTF? Since when does he know more than an OB who's been practicing for 25 years with one of the lowest csection rates, and lowest mortality rates in the area. I trust my OB and my body. I also know that when I go into labor if at any time I feel something is wrong, he'll do a csection.
VBAC, for me, is the safer option, csection is emergency only. My heart does not handle the surgery well and it's not something my OB wants to just do. He does not feel it should be our first option.
I shouldn't have to have a csection,when the chances of a hemorrhage or my heart giving out are way higher than the chances of a rupture. He can just bite me and shut the hell up if he even wants notified of when I go into labor. If he doesn't end hos little hissy fit, he can wait until I get home to get a phone call.