They're 20. My son is in his junior year of college. We raised him in a pro-life home and he's torn about it. On the one hand, he knows it's wrong and he's tried to discourage her. Privately, to me he said he'd be a bit relieved but feels so guilty and overall doesn't want her to and has said to her that if he had to sign off on this, he wouldn't. He's told her he doesn't know if he can be with her if she does this. She said that's fine, if he feels that way she'll live with it.
I offered her a free place to live, free daycare and all the help in the world for my grandbaby. She just said no, she's not interested. Her appointment is this week and my son and I are so devastated. :(