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Should she tell him she is having an abortion?

Anonymous
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My Dd is 17 and just found out she is pregnant. She is on the shot and he always had condoms but she doesn't know if they were expired (makes more sense than them failing just because)

Her and this guy broke up already. He has another gf now also

Well she is getting an abortion and came to me asking for advice on whether to tell him or not

I don't think she should because she is not going to change her mind about it. If he was supportive it wouldn't really matter as they arent together and she wouldn't want him there or involved

If he is against it he could cause conflict or just be hurt

What do you think?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:03 PM
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sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:04 PM
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I don't think she should.

It isn't any of his business.
Texor
by Platinum Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:05 PM
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I wouldn't.

thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:05 PM
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No. What good would that do?

milfanyway
by Bronze Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:06 PM
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I'm of the opinion that if she has made her mind up, there is no point torturing the guy. In this case, not knowing is probably better. My brothers high school girlfriend aborted his baby, and he never got over it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:06 PM
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no- none of his business

lacyd75_anew
by Bronze Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:06 PM
I wouldn't tell him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:07 PM
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Bad situation all around. I'm just going to exist now becuase I have nothing nice to say here.
sweetpeasgirl12
by Bronze Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:08 PM
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 I think she should, I know its HER body...but its also his child he has the right to know!

sweetpeasgirl12
by Bronze Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:09 PM
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 How is it none of his business!? That is his child!

Quoting Anonymous:

no- none of his business

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 12, 2014 at 2:09 PM
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Would you really want to know though if you were him?

What good would it do?

Quoting sweetpeasgirl12:

 I think she should, I know its HER body...but its also his child he has the right to know!

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