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DH lost visitation because of me and I just don't care.

Anonymous
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DH and I have been married for two years. He has a daughter 4 and a son 3 and I have two daughters 8 and 9.We have no children together. We live in DHs old family house(the one he shared with BM and their kids)and I don't want to move. It's a three bedroom home.

Here's what happened:

DH has monthly visitation of his kids but BM was "nice" enough to allow him to see them every week until they start school again(pre-k). So we get the kids Saturday and sunday. Anyway, before, when he got the monthly visits(two days), the kids would sleep in the livingroom on the pull out. They enjoyed it and though of it as camping. But BM found out and demanded her kids get a bedroom. I asked what her sollution was and she said that the kids should split the rooms(My dd and her dd in one room and my other dd and her son in the other). Yeah. Not gonna happen. Why should my kids have to have their rooms changed around for kids that don't even live there? I tell her no and she goes to talk to DH. He was about to agree but I flat out told him that it isn't going to happen.

He gets pissed off and tells BM that I won't budge. So she says that until her kids get a bedroom, they won't be coming to visit. I didn't think she could do that until they went to court. No she hass full custody of the kids and DH is LIVID. But I don't care. My kids shouldn't have to split THEIR bedrooms with other peoples kids. And they would only be visiting once a month once school starts again, so why the hell does it matter?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:08 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:09 PM
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SMH

ETA. At you just so we're clear.
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Lostinindy
by Gold Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:10 PM
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You sound like a real peach.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:11 PM

It's not that serious and she took it way overboard.

Quoting Lostinindy: You sound like a real peach.


imakehimscream
by He screams on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:12 PM
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You are very petty. You will be crying on here soon that he divorced you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:12 PM
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You are a terrible, horrible person. 

GreenEyePixie
by Platinum Member on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:12 PM
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You are a bitch. It is not hard to have your two kids sleep in one room and the little ones sleep in the other. And it will not kill them to share either. Just put up all the stuff they can get into.

If I were your husband I would have told you to fuck off.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:13 PM
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I'm glad that you aren't my step mother.
Anyone else get a Cinderella vibe here?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:13 PM

It is not that fucking serious. It's fucking bedroom

Quoting Anonymous:

You are a terrible, horrible person. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:13 PM
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So you are now living in the home his kids lived in? But you don't think you should give them a bedroom? There are no words for how selfish you are.

mommy2adandykid
by on Jul. 12, 2014 at 8:13 PM
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i hope he kicks you out on the street

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