DH lost visitation because of me and I just don't care.
DH and I have been married for two years. He has a daughter 4 and a son 3 and I have two daughters 8 and 9.We have no children together. We live in DHs old family house(the one he shared with BM and their kids)and I don't want to move. It's a three bedroom home.
Here's what happened:
DH has monthly visitation of his kids but BM was "nice" enough to allow him to see them every week until they start school again(pre-k). So we get the kids Saturday and sunday. Anyway, before, when he got the monthly visits(two days), the kids would sleep in the livingroom on the pull out. They enjoyed it and though of it as camping. But BM found out and demanded her kids get a bedroom. I asked what her sollution was and she said that the kids should split the rooms(My dd and her dd in one room and my other dd and her son in the other). Yeah. Not gonna happen. Why should my kids have to have their rooms changed around for kids that don't even live there? I tell her no and she goes to talk to DH. He was about to agree but I flat out told him that it isn't going to happen.
He gets pissed off and tells BM that I won't budge. So she says that until her kids get a bedroom, they won't be coming to visit. I didn't think she could do that until they went to court. No she hass full custody of the kids and DH is LIVID. But I don't care. My kids shouldn't have to split THEIR bedrooms with other peoples kids. And they would only be visiting once a month once school starts again, so why the hell does it matter?