Wwyd?? DH works a third shift. It's until 5am Mon through Thursday and midnight on Friday. He has co visits eowe Friday through Sunday. Since he works Friday, he told bm he can't take him til Saturday afternoon when he's awake enough to drive the hour round trip to get him. Bm is pissed. She has plans, etc, take him Friday or not at all blah blah blah. He said I can't. She then says we'll your wife will be there, she can watch him. Ummm no I can't. I have classes all day and a study group Friday night. I get daycare through college while I'm in class only and because he's not mine, he can't be in that daycare and my bff watches DD during my study group for free but cannot take another child (in home daycare regulations of how many kids per adult ). She insists either we come get him Friday or not at all because his son is more important than my classes and if he puts my school schedule above her son, she's calling the dean to accuse me of cheating and his boss accusing of stealing. How mean can I get before it's just too much???
So, for you ladies who have been following the insanity, DH and her were texting last night and he called her bluff. She kept saying the CO says from Friday til Sunday. Its been that way since 2013 but she was flexible and now she needs us to be and will use any means necessary. Kept saying I can drop out of school or drop a class to make this happen since she knows a job is more important than school.
So I asked DH to see the CO for the first time. Lo and behold, it doesn't say that at all!!!!! It only says he gets periods of physical placement eowe, with no day or time included! So according to the CO, him picking hm up on Saturday is perfectly acceptable because it is up to the parents, who both agreed to no set time or date, to decide. Here is the CO part I'm speaking of. He just went along with her craziness all this time to keep peace, not because its a part of it.