I was watching that show last night and it got me wondering the stories that has been untold. (If you're not familiar with the show, it airs on TLC on Saturday nights where I'm living.) I'll share mine.
I was 18 at the time when this happen and very naive.
I was with this guy for two months before we started having sex. We had just celebrated my birthday and things were progressing fast. I wanted to do some anal sex. Ive heard about the pleasure that comes with it but also the pain at the beginning. So I figured since the guy was smaller in size the pleasure would outweigh the pain by a long shot. He told me that I had to prepare for it, so when we were doing foreplay he brings out this metal ball called a ben wa ball. So anyways everything was going great, really getting into it. and then he stuck it in my butt. I jumped back and literally fell off the bed and hit my head on the dresser. I was ok and shook it off. Then we started back again and literally it was better than before. We were really getting into and after a couple of tries of attempting,we had anal sex. Feel asleep and went on with our life.
Fast forward to a couple of days, I started having a little discomfort in that area. I figured something had been ripped or something from the anal sex. I soak in a tub for couple of minutes and that seemed to work. Couple more days went on and the pain was unbearable. I couldn't sit for long period of time and it burned. I couldn't use to bathroom or anything. I got worried, I called him up and he took me to the hospital. I ended up in the E.R. for the longest time. I live in a small town and everyone know everything about you. I get a phone call from my grandmother who is a preacher, she starting asking quetions. Luckily at that time they were sending me to the X-Ray department. Took X-Rays and waited for the results. About 20 minutes later the doctor comes back and tells me I had a blockage. He shows the X-Ray and there was round image showing.
I had been admitted to the hospital until I passed the ben wa ball.