DH brothers family (of 8) always want to stay at our house when they come into town
They live 4 hours away and when they come and visit his mom/us then they always expect to stay in our 1200 square foot house- that is already home to our family of 6. His mother has a house with 2 bedrooms and a pull out couch and she lives there alone- but she does not run her air conditioner. So when they come into town then they want to stay with us. They have plenty of money to even get a hotel room if they don't want to stay with his mom. We just don't have the room or food for that many people. If we were to visit them- in their huge 6 bedroom/ 4 bathroom/ bonus rooms, etc- we would still get a hotel. I wouldn't want to impose our family of 6 on them so I guess I would just expect the same from them. Especially since we live paycheck to paycheck (slowly changing this) and do not have the room to comfortably accommodate them. I have went to the grocery (to last a week) and by the time they leave - I am left with tons of laundry and no food for our family for the remainder of the week.
Am I being unreasonable?