She is 13 and I have talked to her dad about it and he says "tough shit she can get over it". Well she doesnt even like going over there anymore because she feels her dad is taking her step fathers side.
She is miserable there and no amount of talking has made it better
She wants to live with me full time. I told her that would mean she would have to go and testify in front of a judge. She still wants to do it.
I know it will cause problems but we have tried so many times to get things to be different and nothing has changed.