I know it isn't the happiest thing to talk about. But the other day my husband and I were talking about if one of us passed away would we be ok if SO re-married later on.
We both agreed that in death we would never want our spouse to be lonely the rest of their days. And it would be selfish to make them feel guilty for moving on eventually. We both agreed that it would be ok for either of us to re-marry in that situation. Now if we are both really old and one passes away no re-marriage would be happening. But if we were in the middle of our lives we both agreed it would be ok.
So what do you think? Have you and your SO had this conversation before?