UPDATE: How often do you ask your kids what they did that day?
Thank you for the replies. My boys went to see their dad for a month. (They haven't seen him for over 18 months.) And, I'm being accused of being 'petty' and 'nosy' for asking.
Isn't it my job as a good parent to know what they're up to? Would you be able to cut off all communication with your kids for a month?