that he is cutting his parents out of his life. That he has had enough of them, he doesn't like them and doesn't want to have a relationship with them any longer?
The back story is, is that they went out every weekend for 20 years, left him with his grandmother. They were always too busy watching TV to talk to him. They told him he would never graduate high school, he did. They told him that he would never succeed in life and never make it through boot camp. He made it, has been in 26 years and is high ranking. When he is with them they always make him feel bad.
I am having a hard time with my DH's decision. Only because although I think its for the best for him, because he gets so upset. I don't want to encourage the decision in case he later changes his mind and then he is resentful.
The cherry on top of the situation is that they got involved in a problem that DH is having with his son, when DH asked them not to get involved. After never being involved in their grandsons life prior.