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my take in strip clubs, topless bars ect.

Anonymous
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If my dh would find it inappropriate for to work there then I find it inappropriate for him to visit one.

Why would I want my husband to visit a place he wouldn't even want my working. .

This is why I would never tolerate my dh to go to a strip club, topless bar ect... it is also the reason why he would never go to one either. .
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:01 AM
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lovemercygrace
by Platinum Member on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:02 AM
Strip clubs topless bats, porn, all have no place in our marriage
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:03 AM
I don't care either way. Neither of is have ever been, but if he was invited for some reason is be fine with it. I trust him and I understand the appeal of being raunchy occasionally. We both watch porn, I don't see it as much different.

He wouldn't want me working in porn, either. I wouldn't want him working as a stripper, but if someone got a stripped at a bachelorette party id think it was funny and entertaining.
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weeping_angel
by Don't Blink on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:03 AM
Ok...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:03 AM
You have a valid point. Mine doesn't dig them either. He says they're a waste of money and would rather spend it on the woman he loves. We have awesome men.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:04 AM
Huh, I never thought of it that way.

I don't mind if we go to one together (we've done it twice; before kids and he wanted to take me to my first one), and he's never asked to go to one without me...
Texor
by Platinum Member on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:05 AM

I find them creepy.  My ex was 23 years older than me....at 50 he still used to visit these places.

I get it for a young, single frat boy...but once you're married and certainly once you're in your 50's, you just become a creepy old man sitting there watching barely legal girls get naked. 

My current DH has zero desire.

Sparkler16
by Gold Member on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:06 AM
Working at one and going to one are different. I know it might seem like a double standard but it is. Dh would NEVER want me working at one and frankly, I never would. I'm above that. I'm sure someone won't like that comment but it's true. He doesn't go usually but he's been for like bachelor parties and I don't have an issue with that. I'm confident enough in myself, him and our marriage to not be bothered by him going to a strip club once a year or less for a bachelor party. With that said he'll never go just to go. He said he doesn't enjoy the idea of throwing money at some half decent chick with low self esteem when what he had at home is 10x better.
LadyNCVE
by Silver Member on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:07 AM
The intimacy and bond of a relationship is at such high risk of being destroyed (or was never strong to begin with) when people go elsewhere for the affection and satisfaction you get from places and things like that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:07 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jul. 17, 2014 at 9:07 AM

All that has no placce in my marraige.

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