My daughter wanted my ex-son-in-law to have supervised visitation, and went through court to get it. I went with her to the hearing today, and we were sitting on the bench outside the room, waiting to get called in. She asks me, "Mom, if the judge approves, can we use your house as an okay place for supervised visitation?" Ummm... no!
Their judge put in the divorce that visitation exchange was supposed to be at my house, which made sense because my daughter was living with me when they divorced. That was in 2005, and all the visitation exchanges have been at my house since then! Even after she moved out, because my ex-son-in-law said, "The court order says..." My daughter even tried to go through court to change it, and her lawyer told me that my ex-son-in-law told the judge he worried that my granddaughter would be harmed by not having the regular contact that came with seeing me at exchanges, seeing as she had lived with me. I can't believe her judge decided to court order a third party to comply with his whims.
That's why I go to court now. I would love to not be in the middle! I think he is an asshole! Who invites an asshole to her house that often?
I know for a fact he's not good for my blood pressure. I was getting my blood pressure taken once, and I started talking about my granddaughter's dad, and was told that I needed to talk about something else, because my blood pressure skyrocketed when I was talking about him.