DH and I have five kids, 18, 15, 11, 8 and 4. Our oldest DD(18) has been at college ten hours away since August,we've only seen her over Thanksgiving, Christmas and spring break because she's so far away. She came home today for the first time since spring break because she's been taking summer classes. She told us she was bringing a friend home with her and we were cool with that,we were just so excited to see her and get to spend some time with her before she leaves for school again in September.
So she comes home with a boy and announces to us that not only is she married, but she is also pregnant. Five months pregnant. We didn't even know she had a boyfriend, let alone a serious boyfriend and to spring it on us like this? And how on earth could you not tell your parents you were pregnant for FIVE MONTHS?! I'm so angry, not to mention disappointed. She is 18 years old and has only been in college for one year. Her husband is 20,he's also a college student, he'll be a junior this year. Neither one of them have jobs.How in the world are they going to support this child?
I'm so angry,I could strangle her.