My youngest daughter came out to her father, twin brother, and I about a year and a half ago. None of us had a problem with it. Recently she's started to be more open about it, and her oldest sister found out, who is really overreacting. My oldest daughter is mad that she hasn't always known, and since my youngest is the babysitter to her children(and has been for 3 years, without pay) she feels like she deserved to know. My oldest called me 2 days ago and flipped out on how she will not have a lesbian watching her children, or even be around her kids. She said "It's a choice, and someone that young(17) can't even know that they're gay."
No one else feels this way, just her and of course her husband. I know I can't make her welcome my youngest into her household, but..I think I should at least try to help my youngest out..it's stressing me out. Would you just let it simmer down? What would you do?