If you marry him you will go crazy and leave him!!!!
I have been the reason for the breakup of his second marriage and third and I am working on the fourth!!!!
I still have a key to our old house. The locks were never changed.
I go in there and do small things when I know they aren't home.
A glass left out suddenly filled with water when you get home. Your hairbrush turned the other way. Your bedspread made neatly like before only upside down. A box of ziti just gone. Your jacket tossed on a chair now neatly hanging.
I don't do that all in a day either. I will place your glasses on your dresser. Five days later, I completely clean the litter boxes. Three days after that you may come home wondering where the hell the coffee creamer in and seven days later your pet Fluffy who is an indoor cat is outside. The very next day you come home to the tv on, and ten days later when you think it has stopped, and all has been quiet, you find a cup filled with cold coffee on the kitchen counter. Four days later your favorite lipstick is missing.
Yes I will do this throughout the duration of your marriage and you will leave. :)