I don't know what to do. My DH isn't perfect, but he's a good dad, but he really isn't a fan of Mexican people. He's had bad experiences at his job. He's always told my daughter not to bring one home. My DH and I are planning to drive up for her 21sr birthday in a few weeks with her grandparents and aunts and uncles and she invited him. This is gonna cause a huge scene if I don't say something to DH but I don't know what. Would it be out of line to tell her to not invite him, it's family only? Idk.