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My daughter is dating a Mexican boy

Anonymous
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She's 20 and in college. He's 23 and just finishing college, not sure what he wants to do for a living. Apparently his parents don't speak a word of English but they're apparently legal. She just told me about all this yesterday.

I don't know what to do. My DH isn't perfect, but he's a good dad, but he really isn't a fan of Mexican people. He's had bad experiences at his job. He's always told my daughter not to bring one home. My DH and I are planning to drive up for her 21sr birthday in a few weeks with her grandparents and aunts and uncles and she invited him. This is gonna cause a huge scene if I don't say something to DH but I don't know what. Would it be out of line to tell her to not invite him, it's family only? Idk.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:44 PM
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Shadowed_Star
by Neko❀Wolf on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:45 PM
Get over it!
ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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Is it for family only? If not don't lie. Y'all are going to just have to get over it!

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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How about you tell your DH to not be a bigoted asshole?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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sidesplittinglaughter

nellyoleson
by Gold Member on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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Are you married to archie bunker? It is 2014.
TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:47 PM
Oh ffs
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:47 PM
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My parents excepted my middle eastern boyfriend back in 2003, who is now my husband. The important part is if he treats her right and she is happy!
sheramom4
by Ruby Member on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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Kick husband to the curb and enjoy your daughter's birthday. Racists should live alone and miserable. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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Tell your husband and both of you get the f over it
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 18, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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I'd just warn him beforehand and tell him to behave himself at the party. I get it, I REALLY do, but this is her life choice. Just be there for her, maybe he'll end up being awesome. I know of quite a few Mexican men who expect their women to basically be their submissive slaves while they go out and cheat or whatever but not all are like that. She could have found a nice boy.

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