UPDATE: How would you feel? Honest opinions please.
Their new lead vocalist (a few months now) is a very attractive, single woman.
Last night, DH told me he is doing a guys night out next week to a sports game, with one guy from the band and another friend. Fine.
(note for those who are confused, this is NOT a band outing. Only one guy from the band plus a high school friend...
Today he tells me that the female vocalist in the band dropped hints about wanting to go, so they invited her. At which point she said..."only if it's okay with your wives." :/
So DH asked how I felt about it, and didn't like my answer. Please note: I did not tell him he could or could not go...I am not his mother.
How would you all feel about this?
I have been great about band practice, etc. But I think this crosses the line of politeness...both that she would invite herself out with three married men, and that they wouldn't just politely decline.
Apparently they uninvited her now (they had already bought her a ticket before actually talking to the wives). They invited a guy instead. DH is pissed, and keeps muttering "I hope HE isn't too feminine for you..."
The whole thing is fucking weird IMO. Clearly it's not a band outing, since the other guy isn't in the band.
And I just don't see why he cares so much. :/