I recently got engaged. I would just as soon go to Toledo and get married at city hall, and df agrees. But when he told his mom, she expressed her desire to see him get married. Then his sisters chimed in that they want to be there too. So, our quickie city hall wedding is morphing into something bigger. Because I have trouble with boundaries, I honestly don't know. Is having an actual wedding to please his family the right thing to do, or us it letting them walk all over us?