I admit I'm a little jealous but I'm more so disappointed and sad for him.
These two were together for 7 years apparently. She has no education. He failed her GED twice and finally got it the third time. She has no job. She can't keep a job when she gets one. She was caught stealing at one. She constantly showed up late at the other. Both she got fired. He paid for everything because she couldn't take care of herself.
To make matters worse she cheated on him. She got caught two seperate times. She used to use his car to go cheat on him. The first time he let her back and forgave her. The second time I'm not sure what happened but she left him for this guy she was cheating with.
Flash forward to present times...almost two years after she left him...
She got pregnant. Her boyfriend kicked her out. The boyfriend who she left him for. So she came crying to him. And of course as usual, he bails her out of yet another shitty situation that she got herself into.
So he's paid for everything for her abortion. Where we are from they stop doing abortions at 12 weeks and she was 17 weeks. So she had to fly out. So he paid for The flight, the hotel, the abortion, a friend to go with her, her food...everything...5 grand total. And because the boyfriend kicked her out, she was sleeping on a couch at her cousins house.
Tuesday he hit me up and said he let her move back in and that she was sleeping in her sons room for a few days. I knew that was bullshit.
I just feel so sad for him because she wouldn't be worrying about him if her boyfriend wasn't a coward and kicked her out when she got pregnant. He basically accepting to be her second choice. And I feel that when she meets someone she's more into, that she is going to break his heart again. And I care about him so much and I don't want to see him go through that.
I kind of feel worthless now too.
I have a good job. I make just over 5500 a month. I live on my own. I'm independent. I'm not sure what it is about her that he chose her over me. And it's messing with the way I feel about myself. I'm starting to think he likes a woman that's NEEDS him. That will never be me so I guess we aren't compatible for that reason. Instead of a partner he wants a second child.
Obviously he's a grown man and can make his own decisions but I wish there was something I can do to change his mind.