She does things TO get others in trouble (example she was caught throwing a huge truck at a mirror. JUST Before throwning it she screamed my 3 year olds (shes 11) name and then threw this toy truck at the mirror)
She tells her friends to beat up on her brothers
she beats on her brothers (all younger than her)
She has been mean to the animals including shaking the cats.
There are 6 kids in the house and I am expected to watch ALL of their every moves. She steals then shoves the evidence in the boys rooms under their pillows and other such things. DH is always commenting how I should NOT be all that stressed out but all she does is create chaos. She pretends to be miss goody two shoes but she is NOT. DH agrees she instigates crap so tells me to keep her under my watchful eye (meaning keep her with me if she is not sleeping ) but to also keep her away from the other kids. Ok soooo....how am I suposed to do that while allowing the OTHER kids to not suffer? WHY is everything on me? I am getting sick of the BS.