I told my so, before sex, what my stand was....did you?
Before my SO and I ever had sex, I told him that if we ever got pregnant there was no option. I would be having the baby...end of story. He's the only man I've ever been with, and I made sure he knew what my thoughts and feelings were on the subject before anything happened. He agreed and we had been together for almost nine years when, while on the pill, I got pregnant. We have a beautful four year old now, and a ten month old. I'm on birth control again and he's talking about a vasectomy as we don't really want nor can we afford another. But if it happened, (unlikely with the mirena) then that's that, we would have three children. How many women had the discussion, before sex, whether or not you would abort an unplanned pregnancy?
ps. I'm not judging any other women's choices, i dont agree with abortion and never will but that's for my life, and my body. other womens choices are not my business, I'm just curious about whether I'm in the minority about talking about it before sex.