It has been a really difficult week. Other than bfs parents there is no other family. The moms mom and dad are dead and her aunt is also on drugs. So I have really been helping with everything. Today after the funeral bfs mom and dad told bf that they think they should take dd for while. Bf works a lot of hours and is only used to keeping dd one night every other week. He said no that he was going to ask me to move in and help.
I was kinda shocked. We have only done one over night together until this week. His dd and my ds are both two. Right now I live with my parents, work at my moms in home daycare, and go to school.
I want to help him. But my parents and his parents think it's a horrible idea. They think we haven't been together long enough and that its going to hurt the kids.
Honestly, I just feel moving in together makes the most since. We love each other. We will be able to financially do it. My ds adores him. And his dd is going to need someone to be there with her while bf works so much so she has some stability.
What do you ladies think? Am I being dumb?