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my bf wants me to move in...

Anonymous
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My bf's daughters mom overdosed and died Tuesday. I have been staying with him and they have been staying with me all this week.

It has been a really difficult week. Other than bfs parents there is no other family. The moms mom and dad are dead and her aunt is also on drugs. So I have really been helping with everything. Today after the funeral bfs mom and dad told bf that they think they should take dd for while. Bf works a lot of hours and is only used to keeping dd one night every other week. He said no that he was going to ask me to move in and help.

I was kinda shocked. We have only done one over night together until this week. His dd and my ds are both two. Right now I live with my parents, work at my moms in home daycare, and go to school.

I want to help him. But my parents and his parents think it's a horrible idea. They think we haven't been together long enough and that its going to hurt the kids.

Honestly, I just feel moving in together makes the most since. We love each other. We will be able to financially do it. My ds adores him. And his dd is going to need someone to be there with her while bf works so much so she has some stability.

What do you ladies think? Am I being dumb?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:33 AM
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Vesta20
by Silver Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:36 AM
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No I don't think you're being dumb. Follow your heart. How old are y'all btw?
thenameshailie
by Emerald Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:38 AM
I don't know. How long have you been dating?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:39 AM
Thanks.

I'm 20. He is 23.

Quoting Vesta20: No I don't think you're being dumb. Follow your heart. How old are y'all btw?
Spam72
by Platinum Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:41 AM
Great family he has. Here is a tip from a woman more than twice your age. Run. Decent people from shit families are so rare it's nearly impossible.
marney.p
by Bronze Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:42 AM

You are an adult. follow your own heart.  

katemckenzie
by Kate on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:44 AM
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Wait, what? Where does it say he has a shit family?

Quoting Spam72: Great family he has. Here is a tip from a woman more than twice your age. Run. Decent people from shit families are so rare it's nearly impossible.
Vesta20
by Silver Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:44 AM
:/ good luck

Quoting Anonymous: Thanks.

I'm 20. He is 23.

Quoting Vesta20: No I don't think you're being dumb. Follow your heart. How old are y'all btw?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:44 AM
We've been dating 7 months. We were friends for about 3 years before that.

Quoting thenameshailie: I don't know. How long have you been dating?
twinmommy27
by Ruby Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:45 AM
How long have you been together?
How are you going to go to school with two kids?
Are you still going to be able to help your mom?
SlytherinQueen
by Avada Kedavra Girls on Jul. 20, 2014 at 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't move in with him but I would offer to help him out with her a lot more. He needs to learn to do it on his own, god forbid if you two dont work out

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