You are not a "strong, independent, single mother". You are a kid who made a bad choice and are now expecting everyone else to pay for your mistake.
A relative of mine is pregnant. I'm tired of seeing her bitch about how the daddy is a deadbeat and how she is a strong, independent female doing all of this on her own. Um... How can the "daddy" be a deadbeat when you don't even know who it is?? Great, you've narrowed it down to three main possibilities (including two one night stands). But tbh, if I was one of those three guys, I'd be demanding a paternity test too before I gave her any money. She intentionally slept around unprotected with multiple guys, hoping to get knocked up to trap one of them in a relationship...well hon, now you're pregnant and pissed off because he's not "stepping up to his duty" (her words), but how can you be pissed off when you aren't even sure who the baby belongs to??
Then, there's this whole I'm doing it all on my own, woe is me bullshit. You've got to be kidding me. She literally has not bought one thing for her child. It has all been bought by family, friends, and donated from the church. She doesn't work, she is strictly receiving government assistance, yet on FB she claims to be working multiple jobs to support her baby. She was given a free vehicle and free house by a relative, yet she's always complaining that her family is doing nothing to help her out. We have all chipped in to help her out in some way or another because we felt bad for her, yet all I see and hear is how she's got it so rough.
Listen honey, you made the decision to get pregnant with no home, no job, and no education because you thought it was your meal ticket to a leisurely life. Now you have to deal with the consequences. You are not a victim, stop acting like one.