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Sex with an unconcious person?

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What does it say about a man that he wants to screw someone while they are unconscious?

In the post about marital rape some women seem to think it's fine for a husband to fuck his wife while she's sleeping.  What kind of man wants to do that?

When we have sex, my husband wants to be with me. He wants to see me and kiss me and touch me and talk to me and turn me on. He doesn't just want a warm hole to get off in.

Is sex in your marriage really about your husband just using your body for his needs? Is that really OK with you?

It makes me sick of my husband trying to fuck me while I was asleep. What kind of sick man would be able to get off that way?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 20, 2014 at 2:00 PM
Replies (71-80):
Ms_mom_81
by Platinum Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 4:18 PM

I think it is fucking disturbing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2014 at 4:20 PM

I give consent by responding to him. If he starts and I don't give back he stops. I don't have to say the word yes or no. If I was just lying there he wouldn't keep going. My husband isn't an animal.

Quoting Anonymous: So you give consent every time u have sex? I know I don't verbally give consent every time and neither does my BF. When either of us are in the mood, we initiate.... I would assume unless he tells me he isn't in the mood, I am all good. My BF knows when I am asleep he is free to wake me for sex. If I don't want to, I tell him I don't. Idk anyone that would stay sound asleep through an entire sex session and not know what's going on.
Quoting Anonymous:

Not saying yes is the key.

Unless the woman told her husband it's fine to screw her while she's sleeping he doesn't have consent.

I've never told my husband not to screw me when I asleep. But he would never have sex with me unless I wanted it. How can he know if I want it if I am asleep?

Quoting Anonymous: Saying no is the key. Being asleep or half asleep or being awoke by sex... does not equal rape unless you specifically tell him no. Or you both have an understanding that is not something you are comfortable with
Quoting Anonymous:

There is a big difference between being woken up by kissing and touching and then having sex and your husband just going it at it while you lie there.

In the other post the wife said no so he waited for her to go to sleep so he could do it anyway.

Quoting Anonymous: 1. Being asleep is not the same as unconscious. 2. I love when my BF stays the night and wakes me for another round of sex. Even if only half awake, I still am involved even if just more relaxed.

 

 

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Jul. 20, 2014 at 4:43 PM
He openly admitted to me he was a nympho while we were together and yes my daughter was conceived while I was on my period why is that so difficult to believe......

Quoting Anonymous: Period sex was the only way to get you pregnant? How is that?

If a man has porn, he's a nympho?



Quoting Anonymous: It's just gross to me always has been he knew that if I was on my monthly that'd be the only way to get me pregnant so that's how our 4 year old was conceived.

He's even admitted that he got me pregnant on purpose and that he's a nypho while showing me the tons of porn on his PC while we were together. we haven't been involved romantically since our daughter was a baby.

Quoting BCauseImAwesome: Whats wrong with having period sex? I get some people think its gross but I dont think a man who does do it is bad.

Quoting Anonymous: My ex tried that with me I woke up and told him get the fuck off of me and left the room the man will even screw a female while she is on her monthly( that's how our daughter was conceived and I still to this day hate him for it).

Men like that are corpse f***ers and nymphos my ex is actually a nympho and it's disgusting.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 20 on Jul. 20, 2014 at 4:59 PM
Lol my husband admits he's a perv. Does it mean he's a perv? No, ifs a joke. Most people talk about being nymphos at some point in time.

Why would you being on your period be the only way to conceive? Most women are least likely to get pregnant during that time. Sure it happens but it's not common.

Quoting Anonymous: He openly admitted to me he was a nympho while we were together and yes my daughter was conceived while I was on my period why is that so difficult to believe......

Quoting Anonymous: Period sex was the only way to get you pregnant? How is that?

If a man has porn, he's a nympho?



Quoting Anonymous: It's just gross to me always has been he knew that if I was on my monthly that'd be the only way to get me pregnant so that's how our 4 year old was conceived.

He's even admitted that he got me pregnant on purpose and that he's a nypho while showing me the tons of porn on his PC while we were together. we haven't been involved romantically since our daughter was a baby.

Quoting BCauseImAwesome: Whats wrong with having period sex? I get some people think its gross but I dont think a man who does do it is bad.

Quoting Anonymous: My ex tried that with me I woke up and told him get the fuck off of me and left the room the man will even screw a female while she is on her monthly( that's how our daughter was conceived and I still to this day hate him for it).

Men like that are corpse f***ers and nymphos my ex is actually a nympho and it's disgusting.
Cnicole31
by Bronze Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:11 PM
How could you not wake up?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:12 PM
Ask him not me

Quoting Anonymous: Lol my husband admits he's a perv. Does it mean he's a perv? No, ifs a joke. Most people talk about being nymphos at some point in time.

Why would you being on your period be the only way to conceive? Most women are least likely to get pregnant during that time. Sure it happens but it's not common.

Quoting Anonymous: He openly admitted to me he was a nympho while we were together and yes my daughter was conceived while I was on my period why is that so difficult to believe......

Quoting Anonymous: Period sex was the only way to get you pregnant? How is that?

If a man has porn, he's a nympho?



Quoting Anonymous: It's just gross to me always has been he knew that if I was on my monthly that'd be the only way to get me pregnant so that's how our 4 year old was conceived.

He's even admitted that he got me pregnant on purpose and that he's a nypho while showing me the tons of porn on his PC while we were together. we haven't been involved romantically since our daughter was a baby.

Quoting BCauseImAwesome: Whats wrong with having period sex? I get some people think its gross but I dont think a man who does do it is bad.

Quoting Anonymous: My ex tried that with me I woke up and told him get the fuck off of me and left the room the man will even screw a female while she is on her monthly( that's how our daughter was conceived and I still to this day hate him for it).

Men like that are corpse f***ers and nymphos my ex is actually a nympho and it's disgusting.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 22 on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:20 PM
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Same happened to me which is why he's my ex.

Quoting Anonymous: My exh did this a lot. I would wake up and start fighting him off! I hurt him a few times. He did not understand why I had an issue with it. It's creepy!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:20 PM

 

Quoting Cnicole31: How could you not wake up?

In the OP this was a spin off from the woman woke up and he held her down and finished. Some of the replies were defending him.

Personally I would wake up right away. And I would be disgusted.

Cnicole31
by Bronze Member on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:22 PM
Isn't this considered rape? A husband can rape his wife so would this apply?

Quoting Anonymous:

 


Quoting Cnicole31: How could you not wake up?

In the OP this was a spin off from the woman woke up and he held her down and finished. Some of the replies were defending him.


Personally I would wake up right away. And I would be disgusted.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2014 at 5:29 PM

Obviously to most people it is. But some who replied felt it wasn't because they are married. They thought the wife overreacted because she had him arrested.

Quoting Cnicole31: Isn't this considered rape? A husband can rape his wife so would this apply?
Quoting Anonymous:

 

Quoting Cnicole31: How could you not wake up?

In the OP this was a spin off from the woman woke up and he held her down and finished. Some of the replies were defending him.

Personally I would wake up right away. And I would be disgusted.

 

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