So, this is gonna sound crazy, but, I've been noticing strange behavior out of my MIL and I really can't go to anyone about it without sounding like a crazy, myself.
Last year, when I had my son via C-section, all the family was there passing around the new baby before he finally came back to me. While I was holding him, my MIL pulled a line straight out of Breaking Dawn 2, came over and said "alright, I think that's enough strain on mommy" and tried to take my son out of my arms. I didn't let her and was like "hey, what's your problem? I'm fine." Anytime there's a family get together, she barely relinquishes my DS to anyone who wants to hold him and when she does, she noticeably has a dirty look. She's even got my son to call her "Mamaw" instead of "Mimi" like the rest of her grandkids from my BIL's & SIL's. I put a stop to that and made him start calling her the correct name and she threw a fit over it. Even family members have remarked that it sounds like he's saying "Momma". She tells my son "I'm the big mommy" and "She (me) is the little mommy". She hovers whenever I'm doing something like changing a dirty diaper and always has to inpect my "job". Example of something recent: "Your mommy needs to get pregnant again so you stay with ME while mommy is resting!" Like, wtf?! I understand getting excited over your grandkids but she NEVER acted this way with ANY of my in-laws' kids and even THEY notice it, too.
Anybody else had any experience with this?! Can I get some advice other than something snarky or sarcastic? I'm gonna go bald from yanking my hair out!