First off let me say I'm a young mom and I think me and my fiancé do a pretty damn good job or raising our one year old. We have a lot of help and support from my family.. But his mother is a different story. It is like she hates my son hates me and hates her own son since we got pregnant. She hardly ever calls to ask about him always has smart things to say to us and wants us to bring our son around her dad who is a drug addict and I don't want my son around that and she gets more upset over the fact he can't see my son than the fact she doesn't get to see him. I don't send her picture I don't talk to her she hardly sees him at all. I absolutely hate the woman. Am I in the wrong? I don't know what to do. Because my fiancés dad loves my son to death! But he doesn't get to see him because I choose not to be around her. I can't talk to her because I will explode on her and I just want to keep peace in the family. It just hurts me for my sons sake that he's missing out on having a grandmother from that side of the family. Am I wrong for not wanting to be around her? Some things she has done :
Said we shouldn't have had him
Never ask about him
Never talks to him when she does see him
Never said she loved him
Makes a difference in other grand kids
Doesnt speak to me either (which is fine with me, just petty) I've never done anything but be nice to her.
Akways brags about what she buys for every one else and never buys him anything. (Which he doesn't need anything it's just the fact of.. Don't brag about what you do for others and not my son in front of me)
Complains about how we do everything because it isn't her way.