If we can't afford an abortion how are going to afford a baby?
I got an IUD because I had one before and it worked great for us. DH has been trying to get a vasectomy but the insurance won't cover it and it is still pretty expensive. It seems like everytime we have the money saves up something happens. First it was the water heater, then the head gasket, then a car accident.
Well of course with my luck the iud failed. I went in because of random bleeding and I am pregnant. We can't have a baby right now I was hoping I would miscarry but nope the bleeding stopped and everything is okay with the pregnancy.
Dh and I talked about me having an abortion worst case. We both agreed on it.
Well now he is trying to say we should keep the baby! I asked if "If we can't afford an abortion how are we going to afford a baby?" He knows I am right and the whole situation sucks but I am going to take a payday loan out for the abortion and get it done.
I told him I don't care if it takes months or years for him to get a vasectomy but we are not having sex until he does. Clearly the IUD isn't working enough and the sheep skin condoms we use are expensive and don't work that well either
ETA: I had the abortion done.