we got the subpoena today for the dna test. We have to go to a place two hours away to do it. And they only gave us a weeks notice.. I am so nervous. Even though there is nothing I can do to change this, and I know no matter what my husband will always be his daddy. Im so scared. I dont want my baby to be in the same room as those people to do this. I have noone to talk to about this and its tearing me up inside. I have been having nightmares about it. I lay in bed amd cry after my husbamd goes to sleep. When I try and talk to him about any of this he shuts down. Idk why.. idk what im supposed to do. I am at a loss at this point. I look at my baby and just want to hold him and never let go. It takes all I have not to cry when I play with him. I feel like I have ruined his life, I made such a huge mistake and now he has to pay for it. Its not fair...
we were supposed to go do the dna test last week and couldnt because lo was sick. Well now we have to go tomorrow. My husband has hardly talked to me all week. Has been crying a lot but when I try and comfort him he lashes out. They have now created facebook pages to bash us. Can I use that against them? I know its them but they are under anonymous names. They are saying things even about my son that they are trying to get custody of. Its a long story. But idk what to do. Please does anyone have advise on how to fight this. I have been getting consultations with lawyers. But cant in anyway afford one. They are driving my husband insane. And I feel like im going to have a nervous break down.
Sorry for this being so long. I have noone to talk to and just need to get this out before I have a nervous break down.
we got the dna results yesterday. Its official, He isnt my husband's. I was crushed. But my husband was very supportive and tried his best to help me. The other guy has already put it on fb (the minute we got the call about the results he did it) and he told my husbands father that he wants nothing to do with my son and isnt happy he is the dad. THEN WHY THE FUCK TAKE ME TO COURT??? He also stated this to a police officer he is friends with. I plan to use that against him as well as all the fb bullshit. I havent posted a single thing and its all they talk about is bashing me. They drive by my house non stop. I plan on filling a restraining order monday as well as going to file for full custody. But im not doing child support. I dont want his money and dont want him to have any ties to my son. I am bound and determined to win this.