Throwing away a house down payment/fully paid wedding because you won't marry in a church??
My SIL told them she's not getting married in a church. She's been the rebellious one since she was younger, she openly says she's agnostic to her parents if they ask, won't go to church ever, generally gets into religious/political debates with them when they bring topics up. My FIL said he's not paying for a wedding or down payment if she doesn't, and she said "that's fine, I don't need you manipulating me with your money anyway", which caused a big fight, and they're not speaking.
What do you think? Personally, I can't get over how stupid I think she's being passing up a fully paid for wedding and help with a down payment over something so petty.