So, I have a wealthy grandfather who never made much of an effort to have us in his life. He only recently started reaching out because our mom, his daughter, (who he also had nothing to do with.) passed away. Every time he does see us, he gives us money I guess to make up for being an absent family member. My husband and I are really going through a tough time and I'm tempted to ask him to borrow some money with the intent of paying him back. A couple months ago he sent some money to help me out and I didn't ask but now I really need it and he hasn't offered. I'm ashamed to do it, I hate asking anyone for anything. What do you think?