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Making excuses not to have sex. Do you do that?

Anonymous
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When I was married, my husband was a total jerk. He lied to me.  He was a drunk.  He was totally lazy.  I still wanted to have sex with him.  He gave really good dick and the sex got me off every time.  He would constantly make excuses not to have sex with me and would send me to take a shower because he didn't like any smell whatsoever of lady bits or any odor.  He wanted me freshly showered.  We would have sex once a week or once every two weeks.  In retrospect everyone tells me he cheated on me which is why he behaved that way sobut I always assumed it was his alcholism and porn watching habits that made him limp for me.  I also blamed myself and said I wasn't attractive enough.  As horrible as he was to me, I still wanted sex with him.  Sex to me had nothing to do with being appreciated as a wife.  I wanted to feel that skin-to-skin closeness and experience an orgasm with him regardless.  I'm single now and my sex drive is quite high.  I really don't see myself ever being the kind of woman who makes excuses not to have sex no matter how bad the relationship is.  That's just me.  Do any of you have a high sex drive, but still reject sex?  If so, why??? 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:04 PM
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Young_Mommy89
by on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:08 PM
My relationship used to be awful I still wanted sex. But then my sex drive dropped I didn't feel good, it hurt and I hated sex. Some people need more than the sex sex is more emotional for them
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:10 PM

bump

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:11 PM
Every day
mjhunter
by Silver Member on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:12 PM
I needed that emotional connection when I was married. When he treated me like shit and then we sex, I felt Luke a prostitute after.
Lilith23
by on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:13 PM
I've never had a bad relationship, when I'm not in the mood, I'm not.
But usually we have pretty wicked shag fest, I'm not the romantic, love making type so i get it, sometimes you just want a good fuck regardless of being mad or anything else.
Peace.Love.Pink
by on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:14 PM

I'm human. Sometimes I'm in the mood, sometimes I'm not. I am more often than not so he wins either way.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:16 PM
I think I turned him down twice in the last 7 years. I was feeling sick.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:16 PM


Quoting Lilith23: I've never had a bad relationship, when I'm not in the mood, I'm not. But usually we have pretty wicked shag fest, I'm not the romantic, love making type so i get it, sometimes you just want a good fuck regardless of being mad or anything else.

lol well that makes me feel better. I thought i was romantic...I guess not LOL 

LadyBugMom09
by on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:16 PM
My husband is wonderful and our sex life is great. But there are days I just don't feel like it. I just tell him so and he's okay with it since it's not that often.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 23, 2014 at 9:16 PM
I was never actually attracted to my ex, so yeah i made excuses.
I actually never really enjoyed sex until my current relationship. we've been together 3 years and I can't get enough. Sadly i had my first orgasm when I was 32.
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