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I am so in love with my husband. *warning mature content*

Anonymous
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I am so in love with my husband, and so unsatisfied regarding our sex life. I'm 22 and he is 29. The URGE is there. But when it comes down to it, I never get my business taken care of. I'm starting to wonder if something is wrong with me.
When I masturbate I get there by clitoral stimulation. I've never masturbated with any kind of penetration.
When it comes to sex we are quite adventurous in regards to toys and positions. The thing is, it's over in 7 minutes absolute tops. And most of that time is him holding completely still trying not to cum. And once he cums, I'm so frustrated that I'm done.
I also have a fetish (bdsm) that goes fairly untouched because it makes DH uncomfortable. I just don't know what to do. I don't even know if I'm vent in or seeking advice. Help?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:08 AM
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momma2mms
by Kristin on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:10 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:10 AM
How often do you have sex?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:11 AM

minus the fetish, did I write this? It's been over a decade and I have yet to orgasm during sex and he goes so fast.

JackieGirl007
by on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:11 AM

 Have you communicated this to him?

mrs.hummus
by Platinum Member on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:12 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:12 AM
On a bad week every other day. Normally every day besides that time of the month. When I was pregnant it was several times a day.

Quoting Anonymous: How often do you have sex?
say_it_aint_so
by on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:12 AM
You have to talk to him
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:13 AM
Yes. He says there's nothing he can do. He's seen dr, tried cock rings, and even numbing spray. We've even tried masturbating beforehand.

Quoting JackieGirl007:

 Have you communicated this to him?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2014 at 1:14 AM
Yes

Quoting say_it_aint_so: You have to talk to him
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