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My soon to be husband wants me to goto his kids birthday party

Anonymous
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& apart of says "HELL NO!" This bitch has slashed my tires,sent me nasty fb messages,cursed me out etc but he really wants to take OUR DD & I'm not sure if I feel safe with her going without me... BM sent the invite with me & my DD's name on it, I thought she was trying to be funny,& then she had her DD call my cell asking if I was coming & bringing her sister... I'm not sure about this but if I don't go he would be soo upset
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:23 AM
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bowribbonmama
by Ruby Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:26 AM
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I would go and be adult about it. 

If she starts anything you can always leave.

Hilary799
by Gold Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:28 AM
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Quoting bowribbonmama:

I would go and be adult about it. 

If she starts anything you can always leave.

runningbear123
by Bronze Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:28 AM

I would text BM and let her know you are hesitant to come.  You want to support the sisters bond, but ask for reassurance things will be drama free.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:29 AM
That's why you don't get involved to begin with....
Mom-does-hair
by Gold Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:31 AM
Well, did your df leave her for you? Why the animosity? Maybe she has realized the kids having a relationship is important.
Lorelai_Nicole
by Lorelai on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:33 AM
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It's time to put the petty crap in the past and put your children first.
propswife
by on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:37 AM

I sure wouldn't let her go without you being there.  No telling what the Ex would say to her or in front of her.  If the girls are close, take her.  They will be sisters and you will be the b-day girl's step mom.  It will mean a lot more to her that you are there than it will mean to you to avoid the drama.

 

gradysmom2006
by Silver Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:40 AM
I would go. Be an adult.
uhhnogirl
by Platinum Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:55 AM
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Don't make it about you. Go.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 3:59 AM
Why was she slashing your tires and cursing you out? Were you screwing your fiancé while she was with him?
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