It's been 5 years since we married and I still don't have a ring. I mention it every now and again. tonight,I made a joke saying that I want him to get me a ring so I can pawn it when we divorce lol I laughed and said I'm jk. I would never do that!!
He then said "its ok because I know you're a shitty wife who would do something like that and I'll know I'll have a better girl when I find her"
Wow!!!! My jaw dropped when I heard this. Totally unexpected!!! We joke around with eachother all the time but this sounded so serious and mean. When he saw how bothered I was he said (in an offensive tone) "GOD! I was just kidding!!!! You can joke, but I can't"?
He didn't even say jk after he said it and then he also sounded so serious. I think this is what he really feels. Especially because of the way he's been treating me lately. He's been so cold and distant.